Hi Dr Phil,
I listen to your living by design podcast. I try every day to live my life to the fullest and to be the best person I can be. My husband on the other hand is a very depressed person with absolutely no empathy. We’ve been together for over 30 years I truly try to live and honor my vows, but it gets extremely hard when I feel like the only one working on making our marriage work. How do I continue to work on something and smile and be positive everyday when I’m dealing with a depressed husband who doesn’t work on it with me? I don’t know if I confront him on his behavior or ignore it. I’m so confused. My husband and i have gone to counseling together and individually but nothing seems to help. He has been on medication for many year. Nothing is helping. I would love my husband to be happy and enjoy life but I don’t know what to do anymore.
I am always willing to try anything. I want to have a happy life with my husband. I want to smile firstname.lastname@example.org