Sep 27

Living By Design for Teens

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Hi Dr. Phil,

I have really enjoyed your Living By Design podcasts. I have listened to them several times. I'm wondering you have ever considered doing a Living By Design for Teens series or Growing Up By Design for Teens? You have such great knowledge and with your connections with professional athletes, I think you could come up with a great series. Just a thought!!

Would love to see for teenagers also.

I myself am a teenager. I recently started listening and the advice that he gives is incredible, and I think it helps everyone no matter the age. But I do agree that having a podcast, specifically being addressed to teenagers would be fantastic.

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