a.k.a. nickpickers, the condensing remark person, the sneaking around snooper, the side comment person? I consider myself very assertive, yet I notice that I spend lots of time eliminating the "one person" who wants to spend all their time finding out all my faults and calling me out and trying to constantly embarrass me. Can they be eliminated from my life? What is the script for handling these type of people at work and the ones that are in your family.